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A letter to the unsupportive partnerโ€ฆ

As you think about the woman you love, I want you to answer one questionโ€ฆโฃ

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๐—ช๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐Ÿ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ?โฃ

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Because the only reason that you would do anything but lovingly support her, is fear. โฃ

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- Fear of being asked to do things you donโ€™t want to participate in. โฃ

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- Fear of her becoming more confident and attracting attention from others.โฃ

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- Fear of her finding new friends to spend time with.โฃ

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- Fear of her having a hobby you might not share. โฃ

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- Fear of her leaving you - (to be blunt).โฃ

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This fear is ๐˜๐Ž๐”๐‘ problem to resolve, not hers. She is not responsible for how her desire to be healthy brings out your insecurities. โฃ

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The easiest way to resolve this fear is to wholeheartedly support her. โฃ

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+ It doesnโ€™t mean you have to wake up at 5am to workout with her. Just donโ€™t shame her because her alarm woke you up briefly. โฃ

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+ It doesnโ€™t mean you have to drink protein shakes and eat more veggies like her. But maybe you help her prep them instead?โฃ

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+ It doesnโ€™t mean thereโ€™s anything wrong with you because you donโ€™t want to join her in her journey. BUT you can tell her how proud you are of her.โฃ

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Providing love and support to your woman is one of, if not the sexiest thing a partner can do. โฃLift her up higher than anyone else in her life.

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Remember, she never required you to participate in the same journey as her. ๐˜š๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ.


(For those of you with the most supportive partners in the worldโ€ฆ make sure celebrate them! โค๏ธโค๏ธ)



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