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A letter to the unsupportive partner…

As you think about the woman you love, I want you to answer one question…⁣

𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐟𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐨𝐟?⁣

Because the only reason that you would do anything but lovingly support her, is fear. ⁣

- Fear of being asked to do things you don’t want to participate in. ⁣

- Fear of her becoming more confident and attracting attention from others.⁣

- Fear of her finding new friends to spend time with.⁣

- Fear of her having a hobby you might not share. ⁣

- Fear of her leaving you - (to be blunt).⁣

This fear is 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 problem to resolve, not hers. She is not responsible for how her desire to be healthy brings out your insecurities. ⁣

The easiest way to resolve this fear is to wholeheartedly support her. ⁣

+ It doesn’t mean you have to wake up at 5am to workout with her. Just don’t shame her because her alarm woke you up briefly. ⁣

+ It doesn’t mean you have to drink protein shakes and eat more veggies like her. But maybe you help her prep them instead?⁣

+ It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you because you don’t want to join her in her journey. BUT you can tell her how proud you are of her.⁣

Providing love and support to your woman is one of, if not the sexiest thing a partner can do. ⁣Lift her up higher than anyone else in her life.

Remember, she never required you to participate in the same journey as her. 𝘚𝘩𝘦 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴𝘯’𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘣𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘭𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘢𝘺.

(For those of you with the most supportive partners in the world… make sure celebrate them! ❤️❤️)

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