
A letter to the unsupportive partnerโฆ
As you think about the woman you love, I want you to answer one questionโฆโฃ
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๐ช๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐ ๐จ๐?โฃ
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Because the only reason that you would do anything but lovingly support her, is fear. โฃ
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- Fear of being asked to do things you donโt want to participate in. โฃ
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- Fear of her becoming more confident and attracting attention from others.โฃ
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- Fear of her finding new friends to spend time with.โฃ
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- Fear of her having a hobby you might not share. โฃ
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- Fear of her leaving you - (to be blunt).โฃ
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This fear is ๐๐๐๐ problem to resolve, not hers. She is not responsible for how her desire to be healthy brings out your insecurities. โฃ
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The easiest way to resolve this fear is to wholeheartedly support her. โฃ
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+ It doesnโt mean you have to wake up at 5am to workout with her. Just donโt shame her because her alarm woke you up briefly. โฃ
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+ It doesnโt mean you have to drink protein shakes and eat more veggies like her. But maybe you help her prep them instead?โฃ
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+ It doesnโt mean thereโs anything wrong with you because you donโt want to join her in her journey. BUT you can tell her how proud you are of her.โฃ
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Providing love and support to your woman is one of, if not the sexiest thing a partner can do. โฃLift her up higher than anyone else in her life.
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Remember, she never required you to participate in the same journey as her. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฏโ๐ต ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ฃ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ค๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ธ๐ข๐บ.
(For those of you with the most supportive partners in the worldโฆ make sure celebrate them! โค๏ธโค๏ธ)
